Baby Needs vs Wants

While trying to overcome my fears of having a child I've started to do some shopping now that I'm at 31 weeks. What I've discovered is that there is a lot of baby stuff, and a lot of it is pretty expensive. I know some of it is just preference, but I'm interested to know what your must have list for having a baby is. This is some of what is on my list so far.

#1 Crib

We have picked out the crib and is basically our only item so far.

#2 Stroller/ Carseat Combo

I've not picked one out yet, and the options seem endless, any ideas on how to narrow it down?

#3 Baby Swing

My mom said that this was a must, which I thought she meant for when he is older. Today when I was talking to her though she said to get it right away, glad I asked!

#4 Bodysuits/ One Pieces

Which I will need to get sometime in the near future.

#5 Dresser

Not this one, but it is cute!

Now, the super controversy John and I are having is about a bassinet. What did you do? 

So that is my list what was on yours, or do you have any advice?